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disclaimer: please take everything i say with a grain of salt and only take in what resonates with you. this reading is for entertainment purposes only!
tip: use a pendulum to pick your pile!
pile 1: your future spouse's likes and dislikes about you
likes: this could be my attractive pile. your future spouse thinks you're absolutely beautiful and they like you because you care about your appearance and pick yourself up pretty well. example: you do skin care, pick a pretty outfit for when you guys go out, you like makeup and just groom yourself very well and your fs loves that! im seeing you're also a person who has been through a lot. perhaps you're a person who has an insane amount of exes or just people who have treated you really badly. your fs sees that and sees how it affected you in the past and how it affected you to this day. your fs likes how you handle conflict and believes it could be because you've been hurt so many times in the past so you've become naturally good at confrontation and handling conflict. you have become a very honest person and your fs likes that. you don't beat around the bush or push your fs away when you guys have an argument. you're someone who prefers it when a conflict can be diminished quickly, so you try your best to solve things when conflict arises. your fs adores that about you! your fs likes that you don't push them away or get mean when you're upset, that you're open to them when there's an issue. you enjoy when they try to make you feel better and when they try you appreciate the gesture instead of pushing them away and your fs likes that. your fs loves that you have a lot of plans for the future and you're always working to make your dreams come true. your fs likes how you're a go getter!
dislikes: i feel like you're a bit naive in love. perhaps a bit delusional. sometimes your fs can clearly see someone doesn't like you or isn't treating you the best and you just push that to the side or tell them: "no!! they are nice! i promise!" and they're like: "no, baby, they're treating you like shit and you deserve better!" you let people walk all over you sometimes because you might think you deserve it or perhaps you don't catch their red flags right away. you're fs is really protective over you because of this reason. you might be a bit selfish when it comes to your money as well perhaps? maybe you don't like to give gifts for people unless you really like them.
pile 2: your future spouse's likes and dislikes about you
likes: you're someone who's extremely confident and you might have not been this way in the past. you might have had social anxiety but through time you've learned to gain confidence in yourself and your abilities and your fs likes that. You're very honest and blunt and you take zero shits. you don't let people get in the way of your dreams and desires. You're a great manifestors and your fs likes this about you. You might be into the law assumption and manifesting in general so your desires come easily for you. You might be very ambitious when it comes to your career. You're very hardworking when it comes to getting the things you want. your future spouse likes how spiritual you are as well even though you do indulge in material things!
dislikes: you're also a bit of an impatient person and sometimes you get tunnel vision or you go after things you want at the wrong time and when you don't get results you tend to get upset or disappointed easily. obviously this doesn't stop you from going after it again but your future spouse tells you multiple times to "be patient, it'll come to you soon!" your fs might be very similar to you so they see your tactics and it reminds them of how they used to be when they were younger so they enjoy giving you advice when you want it and they usually ask first because you might get annoyed when they give you unsolicited advice lmao! they hate when there's people that fawn over you like for example you have a lot of people who have a crush on you or find you attractive despite being married or in a relationship with your future spouse and this person tends to get extremely jealous when they see this and territorial because "why the fuck are you going after my woman? are you insane?" i think there's something about keeping your guard up here because there might be fake friends that you have in your life at this time and your fs tells you about them and you might not listen right away which could lead to issues down the road (lol similar to pile 1)
pile 3: your future spouse's likes and dislikes about you
likes: your future spouse likes that you're very responsible and you know how to handle authority. you are very respectful to the people around you especially people who are just incels. you are very mature so when conflict arises you probably wouldn't cuss them out but you handle conflict maturely. you definitely know how to defuse a negative situation in a good way. you just have a way with words that people adore about you and you just get everyone on your side because of that. you know how to be the center of attention in a crowd. even without trying your future spouse and people in general come to you like a flock of sheep and you're their shepard. (i was not going to put future spouse in there at first but i feel your future spouse was naturally drawn to your energy even in the beginning lmao!!) you're very loyal and most of the time it's hard for you to let people go but your future spouse finds it inspiring that you know when to let go of toxic people even if you're hesitant to do so. you are very empathetic and compassionate so that's why it's hard to let go of toxic people. you might have a mentality where you think you can fix them or help them change even when you know deep down you can't. you just want to see everyone become a better person and you wish the best for everyone, even your enemies. your future spouse loves that about you. you definitely consider all options when you want to go for something and you make decisions very carefully in hopes of not messing up and making a bad decision for yourself or others. you might come off as pretty chill but when you're with your future spouse you know you can be yourself around them so you're much more energetic around them (perhaps you're like this because people in the past have told you you're "too much" when you're just trying to have fun.)
dislikes: for some reason they don't like how you're always right LMAO!! you just know exactly what to say and how to say it even if it's what they don't want to hear. perhaps they don't like how you sleep a lot, or if you're a heavy sleeper? they don't like how you don't pay attention to them often LMAO like perhaps you have other things you want to work on but your fs is super clingy so they get annoyed when you're not paying attention to them sometimes PFF!! sometimes you spoil surprises because you don't know how to handle when exciting things are coming LMAO! you just might not be the best at keeping a secret or keeping your excitedness to a low level. it's definitely not your fault but they're like "babe why did you tell me we're gonna go out for my birthday if it's a surprise?" and you're "IM SORRY IM EXCITED I JUST CANT HELP IT!" lmaoooo!!
pile 4: your future spouse's likes and dislikes about you
likes: your future spouse likes how you can accept certain situations the way they are. you are a patient person who knows how to keep a level head when scary situations arise. your future spouse likes how your voice sounds. i heard they think it's soothing to them. you might be a singer as well and you future spouse likes when you sing to them. i see a woman with a man's head on her lap and she's singing to him as he falls asleep. you could be a foreigner or someone with a different background/race and your future spouse enjoys learning about your culture and how you grew up. your energy in general is very calm and collected and you have a soft hearted way of being which they love. they like how you walk away from a fight if you know there's no use in arguing.
dislikes: you might not have a lot of friends and you prefer to keep to yourself. youre perhaps just very introverted. you might get drunk easily or they don't like how drunk you get when you're intoxicated lol. you might be hard to read or your expressions and body language are hard to understand. you could be a person who represses their emotions and doesn't naturally open up easily or push away your future spouse when you're upset. when you do express yourself sometimes it can come off the wrong way and you get your future spouse upset with the miscommunications and misunderstandings you guys arrive to.